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How Can I Make Contact with My Loved One?

I have found that simply asking God for my loved one's presence, lighting a candle and reading a little bit of Scripture opens me up to contact. The Psalms are especially helpful. Also soaking in some soothing bath oils or salts before initiating contact also helps relax you. Soft new-age music, without words, is also recommended. And simply relax in the silence and wait for your loved one's presence.

At other times, I suggest to simply talk to your loved one out loud - as though he/she were there. Eventually, you will experience contact.

Ask what your loved one is doing in Heaven - and ask them to give you impressions of it. Sit back quietly and allow these impressions to "wash over you." You might also ask them to take you on a "tour" of where they are - either during your meditation or during your dreams. 

Another thing that Jim taught me - and just recently, I have begin to share this with others and they are saying it works for them too! So here goes: Just raise your arms with your palms either upward or outward and speak to your loved one. You may be surprised at what you get in your arms!

Most of all, be patient. It is very difficult to achieve this type of communication if you are not relaxed and receptive. And once you have experienced contact, do not doubt that it happened - for doubt leads to despair and depression.

Trust in the Lord, do good...and He shall give thee the desires of your heart.
Psalm 37:3&4

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, 
and all these things shall be added unto you.
Matthew 6:34

If you have been touched by the death of a loved one and are looking for comforting, uplifting information regarding the life to come, please go to our Afterlife Information Page


Our Meditation Section 
for more beauty and comfort:







Sweethearts in Heaven by Kaye and Robin - a memorial dedicated to their soulmates Jim and Bryan. After Death Communications stories of Jim and Bryan and others.

Dr. Melvin Morse, a pediatrician from the Seattle, Washington area, has extensively studied NDEs in children for over 15 years and has written three books regarding NDEs and ADCs. He has some extremely helpful information in his Download section of his site. There is also an article on how to initiate contact with our loved ones.  Be sure to also utilize his Archives to search for topics.

Kevin William's Afterlife website has some interesting articles on meditation and contact with loved onesHow to Connect with the Afterlife.

Kevin's Home Page


For Information on Lucid Dreaming
The Institute of Lucid Dreaming
Lucid Dreaming-WebRing

  Visit Dream Central: All About Dreaming!

Spirit Web - Life is But a Dream

Out of Body Experiences

Robert Peterson's Site - Free Online Book
Exercise #21 is especially good (at the end of chapter 21)



Music: I'll Watch Over You
 (While You Are Sleeping)
1999 Bruce De Boer